I am a BLACK Woman who’s a Big fan of BLACK Men!

by - Tuesday, August 15, 2017






I am not attracted to book smart, (that does not mean I’m attracted to an empty vessel)
Talking about book smart, I would not confidently date someone that sucks at 30 Seconds, that is barometer.

I am attracted to raw intelligence. Really anyone can sit behind a desk. I want to know what you know beyond the realm of Society.

I believe only living and seeking can give you that intelligence. I am attracted to souls that have been broken, I am attracted to people that are incomplete because it matters to me how a person got to completion and to be a part of that journey.

I do not find absolute confidence in being with a finished person. Because I do not know or understand the level of resilience you have when faced with adversity.
I do not understand the depth of your staying power. I do not understand the value and sacrificial journey of your success.

I am infatuated with the stories you hold and your experiences, the reasons you are the way you are. I have made peace with the fact that I am not a woman of arrival but one of journey. I cannot fully love a man whom I have never seen broken. I cannot love a man without depth. There is something about struggle that creates a man with substances.

The Charisma of a man that sailed through life and one that fought through it are completely different. I fall in love with scars before the victory.


But most important of all, I am a BLACK Woman who’s a Big fan of BLACK Men!




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