I am a BLACK Woman who’s a Big fan of BLACK Men!

by - Tuesday, August 15, 2017

I am not attracted to book smart, (that does not mean I’m attracted to an empty vessel)
Talking about book smart, I would not confidently date someone that sucks at 30 Seconds, that is barometer.

I am attracted to raw intelligence. Really anyone can sit behind a desk. I want to know what you know beyond the realm of Society.

I believe only living and seeking can give you that intelligence. I am attracted to souls that have been broken, I am attracted to people that are incomplete because it matters to me how a person got to completion and to be a part of that journey.

I do not find absolute confidence in being with a finished person. Because I do not know or understand the level of resilience you have when faced with adversity.
I do not understand the depth of your staying power. I do not understand the value and sacrificial journey of your success.

I am infatuated with the stories you hold and your experiences, the reasons you are the way you are. I have made peace with the fact that I am not a woman of arrival but one of journey. I cannot fully love a man whom I have never seen broken. I cannot love a man without depth. There is something about struggle that creates a man with substances.

The Charisma of a man that sailed through life and one that fought through it are completely different. I fall in love with scars before the victory.

But most important of all, I am a BLACK Woman who’s a Big fan of BLACK Men!

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  1. This is great! Scars and experiences!


  2. Black men have been under heavy scrutiny these past few months with the attacks on women and the rising rate of cheaters...it feels good to read something like this once in a while to know that there is abit of appreciation here and there. thank you for this Kutloano